We know that your baby's sleep (and yours!) can be quite a challenge. Creating a proper sleep routine is key to ensuring that both you and your little one get a good night's rest. As your baby grows, their sleep needs change, and it is important to adapt the routine accordingly.
Tips for establishing a sleep routine.
We want to help you create your sleep routine in a simpler way. Here are some recommendations by age.
0-3 monthsIn these first few months, babies sleep many hours a day, between 14 and 17 hours, but very irregularly. They wake up often because they need to eat or simply because they are uncomfortable. Although it is not yet possible to establish a strict sleep routine, you can begin to mark some differences between day and night.
Tips:
- During the day, make sure the house is well lit and there is some activity so that your pet gets used to the environment. At night, dim the lights and create a calmer atmosphere, which will help your pet understand that it is time to go to sleep.
- Create a little bedtime ritual, such as a warm bath or soft music. These little cues will help them relax.
- Don't worry if they don't sleep continuously. Over time, their sleep cycles will regulate themselves.
4-12 months
After 4 months, your baby will begin to have a more predictable sleep pattern. This is a good time to work on a more structured sleep routine. In addition, at this age, they sleep between 12 and 16 hours.
Tips:
- Set fixed times for naps and bedtime at night. Consistency is key for your body to get used to it.
- Create a calm bedtime routine, which may include things like reading a story, giving a gentle massage, or singing a song.
- Make sure your baby falls asleep in their crib, not in your arms, so they learn to fall asleep on their own. This will help them know how to go back to sleep without help if they wake up during the night.
1-3 years
At this stage, your child will need between 11 and 14 hours of sleep. This is when they may start to resist bedtime, because they are more aware and have more energy to play. Don't worry if they also start waking up at night.
Tips:
- Follow a predictable sleep routine. At this age, children feel more secure with routines, so do the same activities every day before going to sleep, such as reading a story.
- Avoid screens (phones, tablets, or television) at least one hour before bedtime. The light from screens can make it difficult to fall asleep.
- Maintain clear limits, such as the amount of time they can stay awake, the number of stories you read to them, the time they spend in front of a screen, etc.
3-5 years
As your child grows, they will continue to need between 10 and 13 hours of sleep per day. At this stage, new challenges may arise, such as fear of the dark or more realistic dreams.
Tips:
- Maintain a consistent sleep routine, with activities that relax them before bedtime, such as reading together or telling them about your day. This helps them clear their mind before going to sleep.
- If they are afraid of the dark, a dim light or a favorite stuffed animal can give them the security they need to fall asleep on their own.
- If your child wakes up during the night feeling scared, try to calm them with gentle words, but avoid bringing them into your bed so as not to create a habit that is difficult to break.
With love and patience...
Creating a sleep routine for your baby or child takes time and patience, but if you stay consistent, you will see results. Each stage of development brings new challenges, but the most important thing is to be flexible and maintain a structure that helps your little one relax and sleep better. Remember that you also need to rest in order to be at your best every day!






